Malamulo a Nyumba

Zamkati

• Mitundu yamalamulo okhalapo limodzi
• Zitsanzo zamalamulo okhalapo limodzi

Pulogalamu ya Malamulo a Nyumba ndi omwe amayang'anira magwiridwe antchito a anthu mgulu lolinganizidwa, kuti anthu azitha kugawana malo amodzimodzi mogwirizana, molimbikitsa komanso mosamala.

Amadziwikanso kuti zikhalidwe zakukhalirana popeza ndizo zitsimikiziro zakuti anthu amatha kumvetsetsana ndikulamulidwa ndi machitidwe kapena zocheperako.

Izi sizitanthauza kuti zikhalidwe zakukhalirana sizingasweke mgulu limodzi kapena kuti kuwaphwanya kumabweretsa chisokonezo; Komabe, Pomwe munthu kapena gulu limatsatira machitidwe ena wamba, mikangano yawo imakhala yosadalilika ndipo nthawi zambiri amakangana ndikumva kuwawa pamaso pa anzawo. Ndipo zonsezi, zopatsidwa kulumikizana koyenera, zitha kubweretsa chiwawa, kunyoza ena kapena kupatukana kapena kusokonezeka kwa chikhalidwe.

Kupatula apo, mwambiwo umati "palibe munthu ndiye chilumba", kutanthauza kuti Kuti tipindule ndi moyo pagulu, tiyenera kusintha kuti tichite zofanana.

Izi sizitanthauza kuti zikhalidwezi zimayikidwa pamiyala: zimasinthika pakapita nthawi ndikumvera kusintha ndikusintha kwatsopano m'deralo lomwe limalimbikitsa.

Mitundu yamalamulo okhalapo limodzi

Titha kuyankhula za mitundu itatu yazikhalidwe zakukhalira limodzi, malinga ndi zomwe zikuwongolera:

• Miyezo ochiritsira. Izi ndi zikhalidwe zobadwa nazo, zomwe zimafotokozedwa mwanzeru komanso pamsonkhano (chifukwa chake dzina lawo) ndipo zimasiyanasiyana pakati pa magulu ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Moni, kavalidwe, kukumbukira zochitika zapadera, dongosolo la amuna ndi akazi ndi miyambo, ndi ena mwa madera omwe malamulo awa amapangidwira. Kuwaswa nthawi zambiri kumawonedwa ngati mwano kapena kupanda ulemu, kutengera nkhani yomwe ilipo.
• Makhalidwe abwino. Makhalidwe abwino amakhudzana ndi masomphenya azabwino ndi zoyipa, zamakhalidwe ndi machitidwe ovomerezeka pakati pa omwe akutsutsidwa. Chifukwa chake, chikhalidwe chomwe chingaperekedwe chitha kuphwanyidwa pokhapokha paza ndalama mdera linalake, pomwe kwa ena chitha kukhala china chilichonse tsiku ndi tsiku komanso chosafunikira.
• Malamulo. Makhalidwe azovomerezeka, mosiyana ndi enawo, amadziwika mndondomeko yolembedwa ( malamulo) ndikukakamiza: amasangalala ndi chitetezo cha mabungwe aboma omwe amayang'anira kuwonetsetsa kuti akutsatiridwa. Mwambiri, izi ndi zikhalidwe zomwe zimateteza moyo wabwino wa anthu ammudzi kapena wa anthu ena ndipo, chifukwa chake, zimayang'anira malamulo ovomerezeka komanso otheka pamilandu yonse yazikhalidwe. Kuphwanya malamulo amawerengedwa kuti ndi mlandu ndipo kumakhala ndi zilango zokhwima malinga ndi mtundu wa mlandu womwe wapalamula.

Izi mitundu itatu yachizolowezi atha kutsutsana wina ndi mnzake ndipo atha kukhala ndi zosiyana. Wina angasankhe misonkhano yomwe angatsatire, kutsatira malamulo ena osankhidwa, koma sangaphwanye molingana ndi malamulo amtundu winawake.

Milandu yocheperako yazikhalidwe komanso zamakhalidwe, zomwe anthu ammudzi amachita komanso kusalidwa zingakhale zovomerezeka ndi anthu ammudzi omwewo chifukwa chophwanya lamulo, kapena kusamvana. M'malo mwake, zikhalidwe zalamulo zimatanthauza chilango chovomerezeka komanso chachitsanzo, chochitidwa ndi gulu lankhondo lomwe likuwayang'anira.

Zitsanzo zamalamulo okhalapo limodzi

1. Phimbani magawo amanyazi. Mchitidwewu umakhudzanso matupi aamuna ndi azimayi, koma mdera lathu lachiyambi nthawi zambiri limakhala lankhanza kwa iye. Lamuloli limakhazikitsa kuti ziwalo zomwe zimawonedwa kuti ndizocheperako (makamaka kumaliseche ndi matako, komanso mabere azimayi) ziyenera kusungidwa nthawi zonse kupatula kukondana.
2. Kuteteza ofooka. Chimodzi mwazitsogolere pamoyo wamunthu, chimati olimba kwambiri ayenera kupewa kupezera mwayi ofooka komanso kuti anthu akuyenera kuteteza otsalira. Ndi mfundo yachisoni yamakhalidwe komanso yovomerezeka mwalamulo, popeza Boma limathandizapo kuwonetsetsa, kuti, ufulu wa ofooka suphwanyidwa popanda kulangidwa ndi olimba.
3. Kusiyanitsa zakunja ndi zomwe zili zanu. Lamulo lina lofunikira pamoyo wotukuka, lomwe limafotokoza mtunda wapakati pazomwe munthu ali nazo ndi zomwe ena ali nazo. Mtundawu sungagonjetsedwe kupatula pazogulitsa zenizeni, monga kugula, mphatso kapena ntchito, ndipo kuphwanya malamulo nthawi zambiri kumatengedwa ngati mlandu: kuba kapena kuba.
4. Udindo wopatsana moni. Kulonjeraku ndi gawo lamalamulo okhudza chilengedwe chonse, ndipo imagwirizira izi wina ayenera kupereka kwa iwo omwe akumana koyamba patsiku chizindikiro chakuzindikira: moni. Sizowoneka bwino kuti munthu amalumikizana ndi ena osagwiritsa ntchito njira zazing'onozi, ndipo kulephera kuzitsatira kungapangitse kusintha kwa chithandizo chomwe walandira. Komanso sizikuwoneka bwino osayankha moni wa wina ndipo nthawi zambiri amawonedwa ngati wonyoza kapena wankhanza.
5. Kuyesedwa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale kutetezedwa ndi malamulo amayiko ambiri, zokondana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndizabwinobwino ndipo zimawonedwa ngati zonyansa kapena zonyansa ndi magulu ambiri aanthu. Ichi ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha kusiyana pakati pa zida zalamulo ndi malingaliro am'magulu..
6. Makhalidwe patebulo. Pali mitundu yambiri yamakhalidwe abwino yomwe imalimbikitsa machitidwe abwino patebulo, kutengera chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu. Chifukwa chake, chakudya chamadzulo chimakhazikitsa ulemu. Izi zitha kupitilira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zodulira, kupita kuzinthu zina zoyambira monga kutafuna ndi pakamwa panu.
7. Kulemekeza moyo. Malamulo ambiri azamalamulo amasungidwa ndi Boma, nthawi zonse, kuwongolera moyo ndi imfa mdera. Kupha munthu mopanda chifundo ndiye mlandu wopalamula kwambiri pamalamulo onse, chifukwa umaphwanya mfundo yayikulu mmoyo wa anthu, yomwe ndiyofunika kulemekeza moyo wa ena monga wawo. Izi, mwachiwonekere, sizimachitika m'magulu onse, ndipo nthawi zambiri amaphedwa pazandale, zachikhalidwe, zachuma komanso zoyipa. Komabe, malamulo amtundu uliwonse amalingaliranso zilango zomwe zingatsatidwe komanso njira yomwe upandu uyenera kulangidwa.
8. Bisani kugonana. Ngakhale madera athu akuwoneka kuti ali ndi chidwi chogonana, imodzi mwamakhalidwe abwino imayang'anitsitsa kubisala kwa kugonana, komwe kumayenera kuchitika muubwenzi wolimba kwambiri wa banjali. Izi zimafaniziridwa ngati "cholakwira pamakhalidwe aboma" m'malamulo ambiri.
9. Pangani ndi kulemekeza mzere. Popeza tonse sitingalandire ntchito ndi katundu yemwe timafuna nthawi yomweyo, kufunika kwa mzere, mzere kapena mzere waperekedwa, ndiye kuti, kudikirira wina ndi mnzake nthawi yathu yobweraKaya mukusungidwa m'sitolo, kukwera basi, kapena kupita konsati.
10. Kutalika kwa tsitsi. Lamulo lodziwika bwino ndiloti, m'maiko ambiri, amuna ayenera kuvala tsitsi lalifupi ndi akazi azitali. Lamuloli, lomwe timalandira kuyambira nthawi zamakhalidwe abwino, lakhala losavuta kusintha nthawi zambiri ndichifukwa chake masiku ano ndizotheka kuvala tsitsi momwe mungafunire, ngakhale mudzayeneranso kuthana ndi zomwe iwo angachite chifukwa cha izi osamala kuposa ife.

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