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Pulogalamu ya chikhalidwe chimatsutsana ndi lingaliro lomwe limawona kuti zowona zonse zamakhalidwe kapena zamakhalidwe zimatengera chikhalidwe chomwe chimaganiziridwa. Mwanjira iyi, miyambo, malamulo, miyambo ndi malingaliro azabwino ndi zoyipa sangathe kuweruzidwa molingana ndi magawo akunja komanso osasunthika.
Dziwani izi miyezo yamakhalidwe Sizobadwa nazo koma amaphunzira kuchokera pachikhalidwe, zimatilola kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake magulu osiyanasiyana amalamulidwa ndi mfundo zosiyana kwambiri ndi zathu. Momwemonso, mfundo zamakhalidwe aboma zomwezi zimasintha pakapita nthawi, ndipo ngakhale munthu yemweyo akhoza kuzisintha pamoyo wake wonse, kutengera zomwe adakumana nazo komanso kuphunzira.
Chikhalidwe chimadalira izi palibe miyezo yikhalidwe yadziko lonse. Kuchokera pano, ndizosatheka kuti tiziwona kuchokera pamakhalidwe azikhalidwe zina osati zathu.
Lingaliro lotsutsana ndi chikhalidwe chovomerezeka ndi kusankhana mitundu, yomwe imaweruza machitidwe azikhalidwe zonse malinga ndi magawo ake. Ethnocentrism imangodalira poganiza (momveka bwino kapena ayi) kuti chikhalidwe chamunthu chimaposa china. Ndi m'munsi mwa mitundu yonse ya atsamunda.
Pakati pazowopsya za chikhalidwe chovomerezeka ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu pali mfundo zapakatikati, momwe palibe chikhalidwe chomwe chimaonedwa kuti ndi chapamwamba kuposa china, koma munthu aliyense amaganiza kuti pali mfundo zina zomwe amawona ngati zosasinthika, ngakhale akudziwa kuti waziphunzira pachikhalidwe chake. Mwachitsanzo, ngakhale tikumvetsetsa kuti chikhalidwe chilichonse chimakhala ndi miyambo yoyambira, tikhoza kutsutsana ndi miyambo yachipembedzo yomwe imakhudza kudula anthu. Mwanjira ina, sizikhalidwe zonse zovomerezeka zomwe zimaganiziridwa, koma miyambo yonse yokayikira.
Zitsanzo zakusintha kwachikhalidwe
- Tikuwona kuti ndizolakwika kuti anthu azikhala amaliseche m'misewu yapagulu, koma ziwone ngati zachilendo m'malo omwe zovala zimagwiritsidwa ntchito zimaphimba ziwalo zochepa za thupi.
- Tikamachezera, tsatirani malamulo a nyumba yomwe tapitako, ngakhale itakhala yosiyana ndi yomwe imayang'anira nyumba yathu.
- Poganizira kuti ndizolakwika kuti mdera lathu munthu amakhala ndi okwatirana angapo, koma kuvomera m'malo omwe mitala imavomerezedwa.
- Talingalirani zachilengedwe kuti anthu azigonana asanakwatirane, koma mvetsetsani zifukwa zomwe mibadwo yam'mbuyomu ya akazi sinachitire.
- Talingalirani zachilengedwe kuti anthu amamwe mowa koma amalemekeza anthu omwe (chifukwa chachipembedzo, chikhalidwe, ndi zina zambiri) amapewa kumwa.
- Ganizirani zamatsenga zabodza pachikhalidwe chathu koma lemekezani amatsenga ndi atsogoleri achipembedzo azikhalidwe zina momwe mchitidwewu umakwaniritsa ntchito zachitukuko komanso zamankhwala.
- Lemekezani kupembedza milungu ina kupatula yomwe timapembedza, ngakhale sitipembedza milungu iliyonse ndipo sitikhulupirira kuti ilipo.
- Musanadzudzule chikhalidwe, mvetsetsani zifukwa zake, komanso zotsutsa zomwe zimachokera mchikhalidwe chomwecho.
