Zamkati
Mawu choletsa Ili ndi matanthauzo angapo, ndikufotokozera tanthauzo lake kumafuna kuyankhula za nkhani yokhudza chikhalidwe cha anthu: izi zimakhazikitsidwa nthawi zonse mgulu lofananalo, ndipo zimapangidwa kokha ndi amuna kuti athe kudzikonzekeretsa kuti azikhala mdera.
Nthawi zambiri zimawonedwa ngati zosavomerezeka Chilichonse choletsedwa komanso choletsedwa, koma osati mu kukakamiza kuzindikira Chilungamo ndi zida za boma za Boma, koma pamalingaliro zamakhalidwe. Malowa anali poyambira malamulo a Chilamulo, asanakhale okonza mabungwe ambiri.
Vuto lofunika kwambiri pakuletsa izi ndikuti ndiwolakwira: chitani zomwe zimaonedwa ngati zosavomerezeka amatanthauza kuwombana ndi zomwe zimawoneka ngati zabwino, zomwe sizingakhale zopanda cholinga kapena zamuyaya. Zolemba zimasintha, pakapita nthawi komanso nthawi yomweyo m'malo osiyanasiyana.
Nkhani yayikulu pomwe munthu yemwe siali mdera lawo amatenga nawo gawo kwakanthawi dziwani zonena zakomweko, makamaka kupewa mavuto.
Chiyambi
Funso lakusiyana kwakukulu pamabuku akuwonetsa kuti, mwazonse, chifukwa chachikulu chopangira izi sikuti akakamize anthu kuti azichita zinthu zofananira kuti anthu azikhala moyo wamgwirizano koma m'malo mwake zoyambira zochepa wokhazikika, komanso wofunikira kwambiri pagulu: ngakhale m'magulu akale sankaganiza kuti ngati munthu wachita zinthu zina, ayenera kukumana ndi zovuta zina.
Ufulu ndi chipembedzo ndi magulu awiriwa omwe amapanga izi: kuchokera ku kuvomereza ndi a mwambo, zizoloŵezi zosiyanasiyana zinali kuletsedwa kumadera ena.
Ngakhale zoletsa zonsezi zimathandizidwa pazifukwa zina, ndizowonekera kuti wowonerera kunja kwa mudzi amangoyang'ana zoletsazo, osadziwa chomwe chikuyambitsa.
Zolemba lero
M'madera amakono akumadzulo, lingaliro loti taboo lidapeza tanthauzo latsopano lomwe ndilo nkhani zomwe mwasankha mwaufulu kuti musalankhulepo. Zimachitika nthawi zambiri pomwe anthu ena amatha kumva kupweteka ndi ndemanga yomwe wina wanena.
Pofuna kupewa izi, pali zingapo mitu yomwe nthawi zambiri imasankhidwa kuti isakhudze (ndi mawu omwe munthu amasankha kusanena, kuwasintha ndi ena) ngakhale nthawi zina mavutowa amakhala gawo la moyo, ndipo amayenera kukambidwa nthawi ina.
Ngakhale m'magulu ang'ono kwambiri komanso otsekedwa kwambiri, monga mabanja, pamakhala nkhani zomwe sizikukhudzidwa chifukwa cha zochitika zina zomwe mamembala ake amadziwa. Nkhani yofala kwambiri ndi nkhani zomwe zimakhudzana ndi kugonana.
Zitsanzo za zoletsa
- Kudya agalu, m'magulu aku Europe kapena America. M'mayiko ngati China kapena Korea, zimawoneka ngati zachilendo.
- M'madera ena, kugonana musanalowe m'banja kumakhala kosaloledwa.
- Chifukwa ndi zikhulupiriro, nthawi zambiri anthu amapewa kuyenda pansi pa makwerero, kutsegula ambulera mkati mwa nyumba, kapena kudutsa paketi yamchere kuchokera mbali ina kupita kumanja.
- Kulankhula zaimfa nthawi zambiri kumakhala nkhani yoletsa. Mawu ena monga 'kupita ku moyo wabwino' amasankhidwa m'malo mwa 'kufa' kosavuta.
- Pafupifupi zochitika zonse zokhudzana ndi akufa zimawonedwa ngati zosavomerezeka.
- Kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kunali kopeka kumadera ambiri kwanthawi yayitali. Mayiko akumadzulo pano akukwanitsa kuletsa izi.
- M'madera ena, kuboola thupi sikuvomerezeka.
- Kudya nyama, kwa iwo omwe amatsatira chipembedzo chachi Buddha.
- Kudya mnofu wa munthu.
- M'mabanja, nthawi zambiri amasankhidwa kuti apewe zokambirana zilizonse zandale, chifukwa chamagulu osiyanasiyana.
- Chitani chibale, kuchita zogonana ndi abale anu.
- Kudya ng'ombe za chipembedzo cha Chihindu. Zipembedzo zina sizimaletsa izi.
- Kudya nkhumba zachipembedzo chachiyuda.
- Ziwalo zambiri zogonana, monga mbolo ndi nyini, sizimatchulidwa chonchi pagulu koma zimakhala ndi mawu ena m'malo mwake.
- Momwe akazi amavalira m'madera ena a ku Middle East.
- Kudya amphaka ku Europe ndi gawo lina la America.
- Zoophilia, kugonana ndi nyama.
- Matenda ena omwe atha kukhala owopsa kwambiri, monga Edzi, khansa kapena Alzheimer's, samatchulidwa monga momwe dzinali limanenera.
- Mawu oti 'achikulire' kapena 'okalamba' kuti apewe kunena 'okalamba'.
- Kudya soseji yamagazi achisilamu komanso chipembedzo chachiyuda.
Itha kukutumikirani
- Zitsanzo za Chilamulo m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku
- Zitsanzo za Makhalidwe ndi Makhalidwe
- Zitsanzo za Makhalidwe Abwino, Zamalamulo, Zikhalidwe ndi Zipembedzo
