Zamkati
Pulogalamu ya umphumphu Ndilo dzina lomwe bungwe lililonse limalandira ngati lili momwe lidalili, ndiko kuti, limapangidwa ndendende momwe zikuyembekezeredwa. Chinachake zonse, kotero, ndichinthu chomwe wakhalaziwalo zake zonse zisasunthike, kutanthauza kuti ndi wathunthu ndipo alibe zolakwika.
Ngakhale dzinalo limagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri kutanthauza zinthu, ndizofala kuligwiritsa ntchito polankhula za umunthu wa umphumphu, womwe umafotokozera zomwe zikutanthauza kulankhula chilichonse.
Ponena za a munthu wokhulupirika akutchulidwa kuti kulimba mtima kukhala ndi moyo wowongoka, wabwino komanso wowona mtima kuti imamveka ngati yopanda cholakwika, ndiye kuti, ilibe vuto lililonse lomwe lingachititse manyazi kapena kudandaula.
Pulogalamu ya kukhulupirika kwa munthuyo, wofanana ndi zinthu, wagona posunga ziwalo zake zonse, koma osati ponena za kunja kwa thupi lake koma kakhalidwe kake, popeza Chilichonse chomwe amaganiza, zomwe akunena komanso zomwe amachita zimakhala ndi tanthauzo limodzi.
Umphumphu ndi kufunitsitsa kusintha
Kutanthauzira kwa lingaliro la kukhulupirika kumabweretsa kulingalira kuti anthu omwe pazifukwa zina amasintha malingaliro kapena zokambirana zawo, nthawi yomweyo amasiya kukhala achilungamo, zomwe zimatseka chitseko cha phindu (labwino) khalani omasuka ku malingaliro a ena.
M'malo mwake, kusintha kwa malingaliro sikukhala umboni wokha wosakhulupirika, koma kulingalira kuti kusintha kwamalingaliro kunali koyenera, osati kubwera kwenikweni pamapeto ena, poyesa kupezerapo mwayi.
Munthu akapanga fayilo ya kuvomerezeka ndi kudalirika komwe palibe amene amakayikira, palibe amene angazindikire kuti kusintha kwa malingaliro anu kumachitika pazifukwa zina zilizonse zomwe sizosintha malingaliro.
Zodabwitsa za umphumphu
Mkati mwa ukoma wa anthu, umphumphu umaonedwa kuti ndi umodzi mwa zofunika kwambiri. Komabe, moyo pagulu umapereka kuti kupanda ichi sichifukwa chomulanda munthu Ufulu, kapena kutsekereza anthu ena onse: m'malo mwake, mwatsoka sikulakwa kulingalira kuti, makamaka m'maiko ena, anthu omwe samayang'ana kwambiri umphumphu wawo nthawi zambiri amakhala otero kukwaniritsa bwino m'malo ena, kuphatikiza ndale.
Izi zimachitika chifukwa mayesero okhudzana ndi chinyengo, mabodza, katangale, chinyengo kapena chinyengo ndizochuluka, ndipo ndizovuta kuziphonya zonse: kufunika kwa umphumphu kumaonekera pomwepo, chifukwa Kupita kwa nthawi kumadzetsa mphotho kwa iwo omwe adachita zowongoka ndikudzudzula iwo omwe sanatero, makamaka zikafika pokhala ndi chikumbumtima chawo.
Nazi zitsanzo zina zosonyeza kukhulupirika.
Zitsanzo za kukhulupirika
- Banja lomwe lakhalapo kwazaka zambiri, osanyengana.
- Wophunzira amene amakhoza mayeso osabera.
- Mwana yemwe amaphunzira ndikumvera mozama zomwe angauze ngakhale zimamupweteka.
- Munthu yemwe, mopambana mwakuthupi motsutsana ndi wina, sagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake.
- Atsogoleri ngati Nelson Mandela, omwe amatsutsa maboma ankhanza kudzera mwamtendere.
- Mwana yemwe nthawi zonse amabwera kusukulu panthawi.
- Munthu yemwe samakana komwe adabadwira ndikukulira.
- Mtolankhani yemwe salola kuti malingaliro ake asokonezedwe.
- Anthu omwe, ngakhale ali ndi mphamvu inayake, amasankha kulemekeza ndikumvera ena.
- Wandale yemwe, akapambana udindo pachisankho chodziwika bwino, pambuyo pake sasintha chipani kapena mgwirizano.
- Munthu amene samachita zakukhosi kapena china chilichonse chonga icho.
- Munthu amene sapewa udindo wake ku Chuma Chuma.
- Munthu amene amalemekeza achikulire ndipo amayamikira zomwe akudziwa komanso zomwe akudziwa.
- Munthu amene amalemekeza nyama.
- Munthu yemwe, pokhala ndi mwayi wonyoza wina ndikupeza zabwino, amapewa kutero.
- Mkazi woona mtima m'mawu ake, ngakhale zitamubweretsera mavuto.
- Othamanga omwe amayenera kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti akwaniritse cholinga chawo, osagwera munjira zosavuta monga mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
- Malo achipembedzo omwe amasankha kusasewera ndi malingaliro kapena chikhulupiriro cha anthu.
- Wandale yemwe amatha kukana kuyesa ziphuphu, ngakhale kuziwuza.
- Anthu omwe akatenga udindo, amamva kuti ndiofunikira kuti akwaniritse.
